45.When you’re in a conflict with someone or just having some rough times, your mind gets into action. Lack of conversations, visual contact are merely 2 ways of “obliging” yourself to make up scenarios: “What if she…” “What if then….or…” and that goes on and on and on. You start imagining situations in which you would say this and the other person would reply something that you would want to, or exactly the opposite and thus reviving much pain, ending up with proof on the outside: tears. It’s frustrating, but everything can be solved with some spare time “given” by the individuals involved and a will to set things through. Still there are questions you cannot ask and answers you might not bear and which the other one would not desire to reveal.

At this point I find myself in that situation and moreover, in the middle of another one.

As George Bernard Shaw said : “The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has take place.”